Dress to impress yourself.

shea1ewb Sometimes the outfits I wear make it pretty certain I may never find a man. “I like birkenstocks, and long shorts on girls”- said no man ever. But that’s my problem with most men…. they see high stilettos and a short dress and think “that’s sexy.” What’s sexy to me is a woman with style. A woman who is confident, and not afraid to take risks. A woman who is not afraid to be labeled “unsexy.” I have no problem wearing long leather shorts and slides (I paired them with a white tank from Macy’s x MADE collab and dope Lanvin necklace)…. Having a unique style to me is sexy, and my advice to all women out there- dress for yourself and no one else! Shop the white tank here: Macys.com Shop the accessories in this look below: [show_shopthepost_widget id=”151987″]
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July 8, 2014
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July 14, 2014

Dress to impress yourself.


  1. ChamaFashion says:

    You are so beautiful!

  2. Daniella says:


  3. The Provoker says:

    Wow the lighting here is stunning!!! All your photos are so well shot. Also, please check out my newest OOTD post whilst I comment on all things ‘cool’: from Kool-Aid, raspberry coulis, haiku, Mila Kunis (ha!), and CULOTTES!! #TooCulottesForSchool

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  4. Natali says:

    Great bag and shoes! I also agree that women should impress themselves and dress for themselves because
    they need to feel super comfortable in their own skin and then everyone else will notice that too and find them
    attractive just because of their confidence and character.


  5. So true! I agree with every word! First of all, dress for yourself!


  6. Camille says:

    You are absolutely right ! Love this post

  7. Ketty says:

    every person has different choice. but you have to wear what you really love too. i love your outfit.

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  8. Catalina says:

    I know men who likes fashionable ladies like you, so just be true to your style, it’s the best!
    I like your shoes, a lot!


  9. Eye Like Fashion says:

    You always look sexy! Must be your confidence which is the most stylish thing a woman can wear right? Great post.


  10. YES yes yes! Your words are so spot on and encouraging! Thank you for this post, it’s a reminder we all need.


  11. Aisha says:

    Totally agree! I think your outfit is uber sexy (I don’t what the men are on :P). Love the shorts!

  12. Laura says:

    You look amazing as always!


  13. Sasha says:

    I love your bag!

  14. Sarah says:

    Definitely a big believer in this as well :) xx

  15. Emily Ancona says:

    You have a lovely blog! The layout is gorgeous and your photos are perfection! <3

  16. Sofia Nina says:

    I love this post and I think its great to have a well known female blogger encouraging women to define their own “sexy” and not what society says is sexy

  17. sienna says:

    Great outfit, and I totally agree with you! Girls spend too much time thinking about what men want to see them wearing… A woman with a great sense of style is sexy, a woman who feels good in what she’s wearing is sexy.

    xoxo Sienna

  18. Oroma says:

    I love the necklace, great outfit!

  19. ediot says:

    you look great. nice outfit

  20. Mira says:

    Beautiful shot! Love the necklace!

    xx Mira


  21. Paulynagore says:

    No need to be sexy to please to a men ^^ i love your outfit !


  22. Francesca says:

    This necklace is totally stunning! I fell in love with it


    Francesca http://everydaycoffee23.blogspot.it/

  23. Monique says:

    Such great advice! I would rather dress for myself than be sexy! Go girl!



  24. Miri says:

    Love the photos…You look stunning!


  25. I think that your style is very sexy and confident! That is who you are and should never change for no one! http://www.payless4brands.com

  26. Abby says:

    Only you can make Birks look hot!

    xoxo One Stiletto At a Time

  27. Anastasia says:

    Great look! And the pictures are so editorial like, wonderful!


  28. millennielle says:

    I always love your photography, but it takes so long for the slides to load and the vertical pictures are so small that it’s hard to see the details :( I hope you go back to full length posts soon! But other than that, I completely agree with your philosophy of being comfortable with your OWN style as a woman ;)

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